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The foundation of your inner voice

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The volatility of some connections

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Is the Emotion You’re Feeling Yours?

[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.19.18″] What happens when you get accosted by an emotion that doesn’t feel good – a negative emotion? How do you know if that emotion is your own or if it’s something that you picked up from someone else.  I recently experienced this and after chatting with others about it, I realized

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Tips for handling a shitty day. Kasia Rachfall Thriving After 40, Akashic Records Kelowna BC

What to do when you have a shitty day

[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.106″ background_layout=”light”] What do you do when you have a shitty day? When something happens that triggers an emotion inside you and you can’t get a handle on it; your whole body contracts and you feel it in your chest or your head or your core. It threatens to overtake you and

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Bad advice for women over 40

[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.106″ background_layout=”light”] There is a lot of pressure on women – and I get that some of it is self imposed, but some of it comes from society, family, work, friends, the media… When I turned 40 recently I found myself really struggling. I don’t know what exactly made me freak out

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What’s worse than being afraid to say what you want?

[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.106″ background_layout=”light”] So often women are afraid to really ask for what they want even though that’s the number one way to thrive in life. Not only that, we’re afraid to figure out what it is we want in the first place. It’s vulnerable and can be scary. It also creates a

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What Is Self Love and How Do You Do It?

[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.105″ background_layout=”light”] “What does self love mean? How do you do it? Spa treatments?” my client asked me once. If you’re not used to having a self love practice or are new to the idea of it, it can feel really mysterious and vast.  First, let’s separate self love and pleasure. Loving

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How to change body habits and thrive in your 40s and beyond

[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.105″ background_layout=”light”] The brilliance of our unconscious mind and body relationship is that once it learns something we no longer need to think about how to do it, the motions become second nature. The same goes for thoughts, beliefs, and emotions. Do you remember what it was like learning to tie your

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You will never get to self love through self judgment and how to do it instead.

Why you can’t get to self love through self judgement

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”3.22″][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.25″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.0.47″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.93″] You can’t get to self love through self judgement.  At some point, women decided that to love themselves, first, they need to fix themselves.  I call bullshit!  That’s not true!  You can’t judge yourself, berate yourself, or hate yourself enough to come out

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Tips to make choices and decisions easier

[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.87″ background_layout=”light”] What do you feel when you hear the word CHOICE? Or the word DECIDE? What does your mind immediately jump to? For me those two words used to conjure up fear, uncertainty, feeling incapable, feeling trapped.  Choices and decisions were very hard for me to make, too, because of a deep

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How to build self trust

[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.87″ background_layout=”light”] On a scale of 1 – 10, how much do you figure you trust yourself? (1= not at all, 10=completely) I’ll be honest, I used to be on the very bottom of that scale. Sometimes even on the negative side! And it’s because I used thing trust was a feeling.

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How to stop emotional venting

[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″ admin_label=”section”][et_pb_row admin_label=”row” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” background_size=”initial”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.51″ background_layout=”light” text_orientation=”left” border_style=”solid”] Oh, this was one of those conversations. I was standing in line waiting to pay for my groceries listening to a stranger vent, completely incensed at something that had happened to her that day. She proceeded to tell me all about the dramas

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